How To Have More Sensual Lovemaking

Every now and again we all think to ourselves that our love lives could do with a bit of spicing up but when it comes down to ideas to make this happen, we find ourselves stumped. Well, not anymore! There are so many ways in which you can have more sensual lovemaking and also more exciting lovemaking and all it takes is a little bit of time and effort and also a little bit imagination. 

First of all, sensual lovemaking means considerate lovemaking so if you are not normally a very considerate lover, now is the time to change. Try running your partner a bath and fill it with his or her favourite bubble bath or essential oils in a fragrance that they like. To make the effect even better you could try using the essential oils that are renowned for having sensual lovemaking properties such as rose oil or patchouli and all it takes is a couple of dribbles of this into running bath water and the oils will do the rest of the work! You could increase the effect even further you could even add some rose petals or the petals from another flower and then add some small candles to the edge of the bath and turn the light of. Be careful when using candles however and make sure that they cannot be knocked over as this can be very painful when the hot wax comes into contact with the skin and also prevents a fire hazard to shower curtains and such like that you may have in the bathroom.

Candles should be the main focus for any sensual lovemaking plan and especially those that are fragranced. These can create a dimmer light, which automatically sets a sensual mood, and the lighting is also very flattering which means there should be no body hang-ups. The fragrance candles also work in the same way as the essential oils in the bath and the scents that are linked to sensual properties will have an even more romantic effect to the evening that you have planned. If you cannot find scented candles for the sensual properties, you could always light the candle for a few moments until some of the wax has melted, blow it out and then drop a few drops of the essential oils into it so that when you next light it, the candle is fragranced and the room smells nice.  

There are a hundred and one ways in which you can partake in more sensual lovemaking and the trick is to be imaginative. If your partner has a favourite song, put it on and if they have a favourite romantic film, try renting it out. You could also surprise your lover with a sensual present such as some sexy feeling lingerie – lace and velvet works well for this. By doing this you are suggesting a romantic night of sensual lovemaking without having to say the words themselves and as the well-known phrase says – actions speak louder than words!